I emailed her and told her how I felt, that I was holding grudges, resenting her, etc over the candy bowl fisaco, message board (WW) fisaco, etc.
She did say that she bought candy more often out of defiance because she said they (her and other co workers) got sick of me complaining about candy bowl .. (whatever) so they did the exact opposite and began buying more candy on a daily basis. I think that was very unprofessional because she's the assistant manager... and to think she said that I had inspired her to lose weight in 2003.
Anyway, now I feel better after telling her how I felt, etc... but I don't think we will be close friends, though because she says she doesnt want to spend energy trying again and I agree because I can't deal with unsupportive people.
Just wanted to share, as I didn't want to be mad or hold grudges or be resentful with her anymore, as I have to see her on a daily basis.
I also need to be happy again in the weight aspect of my life so i can focus on losing weight again. I am not saying I'm unhappy person. I am happy person in some aspects of life, but unhappy in weight aspect) as I had gained at least 40 lbs back and I'm not happy about this.
I kinda blame the weight gain on this co worker (which I know I shouldn't) ... and the candy bowl too... because I simply can't have it ... because one bite will lead me to having more and more.
do u think I did the right thing by telling my co worker how I felt especially after the incident happened a year ago?