My biggest problem has been self pity. The times I have gained the most weight have been times of crisis, like many people. I always felt that I had things worse than most people, and made excuses for my eating patterns. And exercise, I have always had a million excuses not to move my ever-fattening butt. Everyone has chapters in their lives they would like to rip out and tear up, it's the response to those times that matters.
This time things are different. Firstly I am taking it slow, one pound at a time. Secondly EVERYONE knows I am on a healthy eating plan, my workmates, my manager, my partner, my friends, the landlady at the pub (who has my diet coke ready the minute I walk in the door) the lady at the fruit and veg shop.....I have so much support this time. (Not forgetting you good people either)
I am being positive and concentrating on the foods I can eat, and am enjoying my meals and all the good things in life, fruit, vegetables etc. And I am concentrating on what I can do exercise wize, I am walking, swimming, and doing gentle resistance work.
Keeping a positive attitude, and loving myself at all times, regardless of whether I am doing well, or not so well, is my new approach.