I'm so glad you've decided to take the trip. It so sounds like you deserve it. I'm sorry to hear about your son's upcoming divorce. No matter what the relationship has been like it's always sad to realize that it can't be saved. I'll pray for the children and your son that the custody goes smoothly. I was divorced once, but thankfully I had no children with my 1st husband. All we had to do was decide who wanted the motorcycle(no brainer) and other STUFF. Not too long agao my SIL and I were talking about my ex (she'd seen him somewhere) my #1 son had his ears on and asked me, "you've been married before mom?" I told him yes a long time ago etc... his response.....a secretive, " does dad know?" lol We were in the car at the time and I thought my SIL was going to go off the road she was laughing so hard. Without any children involved it just never seemed to be anything I felt I had to share. Well, let me know when you're leaving so I can be prepared
Have a great day!
Kristi