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Originally Posted by FluffyFat
Sorry this is so negative, I know there are many positive reasons to diet, I'm just not feeling them lately.
I can really relate to this post, I recently started dieting again after regaining almost 30 of the 50 lbs I lost (our stats are very similar too). A couple months ago I was in the same frame of mind as you- absolutely exhausted by even just thinking the word diet.
I've realized that it's because I'm typically a very strict dieter- I used to weigh/measure every single piece of food I put in my mouth, charted every calorie, completely cut out all processed foods, no treats/indulgences, forced myself to do workouts I hated and to eat food I didn't like, etc. I don't know if you're like that too but if so, no wonder the idea of dieting is awful! I also think that my approach was a part of the reason I encountered such tough plateaus.
I'm trying things a little differently this time. I've been focusing on making small adjustments like paying attention to my portion sizes/hunger cues, drinking more water, and trying to incorporate more veggies I actually like in my meals. I haven't been denying myself the foods I want. The weigh is coming off more slowly this time around (about 10 pounds in 2 months) but it IS coming off and I don't feel exhausted and drained by the process.
I think this relates to what another poster was saying above, that dieting is NOT "one size fits all" If the way you've been dieting is effective in the short term but unmaintainable, it could be worth trying a different approach of you feel ready