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Originally Posted by skittlesfirehawk
My BFF is also overweight she keeps saying some days she wants to lose weight and some days she dosen't.I keep telling her I'm devoted to losing weight and plan on meeting my goal weight by September.She says I can't and I won't.my legs have gotten worse and gym is non existent.Im more motivated then ever to prove her wrong.i hope when September comes and I've met my goal she will wake up when's she's still the same weight
Wait.. what? Ok how can someone be your best friend and you wish that she will "wake up still the same weight?" And really, you're trying to lose weight just to prove her wrong?
Neither of you is sounding like a good friend to each other. If you really cared about each other you would either support one another or stay out of each other's way. If your weight loss efforts require that you wish her to fail then your priorities are way out of whack imo.
There are a few people I've spoken to about my weight struggles. I went through a series of diets and approaches and each step of the way my friends wished me luck and didn't question me once. They've always been interested in what I'm doing and I've always been interested in what they did. My BFF used to be someone I would visit all-you-can-eat buffets with and our friendship revolved around food. Then she lost weight and is now a zumba instructor. I've never once been jealous, or wished her ill.
Judging by how the two of you put each other down i'd say neither of you is a friend to each other, and you both sound immature and petty.