nonameslob Yes, a girlfriend of mine, but I mean she is not the only person to make comments about my weight loss, but the "unhealthily skinny" was a new one. Usually it is my family to make such comments, and my friends less so, but they do. And I probably can think of a nicer way to have a chat with them, but when my pot starts to rumble, it's hard not to reach boiling point .
I can only imagine that maybe she and others have made similar comments because of how I carry my weight, which is towards my middle and back....I do know for example that my already broad shoulders have become more pronounced, my arms and wrists which were already small got way smaller. I can't even fathom what they will look like in 20-30 lbs, because I don't think they can get any bonier. Then there are my legs, I carry my weight on them at the thighs, and genetically, just like all my siblings we don't have to do very much for killer calfs..........As you can see, I have been obsessively staring in the mirror trying to see what others see...
Again like I told one of my friends I am not losing weight to look good clothed! I want to look damn good naked. Why be envious of anybody else's body when I am still young enough to achieve my own ideal?? You only live once.
And Bravo! on your face pics! You are so pretty. That must make you so happy to see the difference...but you before was pretty too.