Ok so first off, I am a woman manager, so not a woman hater and i have seen some fantastic managers, of which my manager is definitely up there for being so awesome! Anyway so here's my rant :
Why do some women managers feel like they have to act like total hard *** bi*ches to be taken seriously?? why?? So had a meeting with this biatch manager at work who is only slightly my senior but much older and you should have seen her throwing her weight around, treating me like I was dirt under her feet and being a total *****. Am so angry mainly because 1) I hate conflict and years as fat girl, i cant stand up for myself. In highschool when being bullied, Id just go home and eat and tried not to draw attention to myself.I have changed a lot since then but I still cant stand up to bullies. I just become quiet and passive and i hate it! I also have this incredible urge to eat which i know its just how I always react and 2 ) because no one should have the right to treat others like sh*t regarldess of their levels and I am not saying men managers cant behave the same way but I mainly see this from women managers and it makes me angry because you shouldnt feel you have to be a bully to be taken seriously at work and instances like today makes me realise why they do. And then it scares me because i can see how she does get this way because frankly it sucks to be treated the way I was treated today.
Anyway not sure what the point of this rant is, only my need to get it off my chest so i dont eat.