OK - so this is going to cover a few different things on my mind... I recently signed up for eharmony because they were having a 3 month special going and I figured I'd give it a shot... 1. I live in NYC where I moved for work, and while the city is huge, I don't know really anyone, 2. For work I am in office, by myself for 80% of the week, and the other girl in the office has a bf and the other guy is married... so I never really have the opportunity to meet anyone, so I figured why not.
Let me also point out that I tried eharmony and match.com over a year ago and felt overwhelmed with browsing, I wasn't living in the city, I had other stuff going on, and never met anyone, so I decided to give it another shot.
1. IS ANYONE HAVING ANY LUCK ON EHARMONY? I feel like the last time I got a few selective matches, but now I get about 20 a day, I don't have time to scroll thru them all, and maybe I'm picky, but none of them see too appealing to me! Does anyone have any success stories?
2. Fast forward to you find a match on EHarmony or in general, do you announce (and at what point) to your date, that your current main priority is losing weight and getting in shape? (At least that is my current main priority, and I really don't want anything stopping it) - or do you think that will turn him off? Save it for down the road?
3. Does anyone else feel just uncomfortable about dating while in this "transitional" period of weight loss? I have to admit that I am a little weary, while I do feel good about myself, I don't feel as good about myself as I know I did when I was skinny and in shape, and how I think I'm going to feel when I get back down to that point... Which makes me uncomfortable around others, especially in a date scenario, which is already awkward...
I think I'm in a rut!