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Originally Posted by liliesinmycereal
Also, Why are you trying to push yourself that hard? Will you not be happy in going if you lost 20 pounds?
This. It is much more feasible to control behaviors than it is to control how your body responds to those behaviors. So, I recommend setting behavioral goals - stick to your plan every day between now and your trip, exercise 6 days a week, whatever behaviors you need to change - and let the numbers follow from that as they will.
That way you can be delighted at how your hard work has paid off in results, instead of angsting about whether those results are good enough to meet your arbitrary and overly-ambitious numerical goal that your body doesn't care about.
You can set the 44 pounds in 3 months as an ideal you'd love to reach, but making it your GOAL sets you up for giving up in January because you've "only" lost 18 pounds so far and you're "never" going to make that goal.
That's just my view on "x pounds in y time" sorts of goals - I generally disfavor them.