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Originally Posted by idealamber
i have done all of those things without the threat of being fired as a client.... but i would not continue in my program if those rules were in place with my coach. sounds like the director of your clinic needs some tips on positive motivation and leadership!
Sounds like your clinic is doing it right, idealamber.
All clinics ARE supposed to be that strict, with the exception of the "one cheat and you're out" rule...if you cheat once, your coach should be asking you (nicely and in a positive manner!!) about the circumstances, and explaining to you that a second cheat may in fact result in them asking you to stop the program for a while and come back when you're really ready to commit. They should NOT, however, be ****-like about it or making you feel pressured.
If you think about it, cheating wastes your money, wastes your coach's time, and ends up being frustrating for both sides. Your coach isn't there to be your friend – presumably, you have those, and if that's all it took to lose weight, it'd be a cinch. Your coach IS there to guide you, hold you accountable, help you track your progress and stay on program, and oversee your IP journey.
The journal is supposed to be mandatory the whole time you're on program, not so they can be nosy or overbearing, but because it helps YOU track your eating habits, another accountability element, but also part of your re-education about food choices, portions, hidden carbs, etc. It also gives your coach a lot more information to go on if your weight loss stalls or you develop any issues while on the program.
Yes, you do have choices when it comes to weight loss, but don't you want use a program that actually works and go someplace that's actually interested in you being successful, not just taking your money? And also, DO speak up to the clinic head...they may not know how your coach is handling dieters, but if they know the effect it's having, I'd almost guarantee they'll do something about it.