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Originally Posted by pnkrckpixikat
LA will always be there if things dont work out. it sounds like you dont have anything holding you to SD except a job that may or may not be secure, you won't have ray and you can't afford school. (i grew up in SD, im half amazed even with two jobs you can afford a place in PB lol)
In santa cruz you will have ray, and you think you can pull off starting school. additionally, clear channel is a national company, even if you can't transfer (and i'd def ask about the poss if i were you) as long as you leave the company in good standing you can always keep applying there as jobs open up, which means in theory you could end up with the job, the love, and the schooling
I say go for it!
I so agree with this. I know many people are thinking with their heads, and maybe this is my problem, but i tend to think with me heart, and it seems you truly love this man.
you job in radio isn't too secure as you've stated and you can't even go back to school where your at right now.
you sound like an independent girl and if you move to Santa Cruz you can have a job and go to school, and you would have Ray. It would be tight, but wouldn't that mean you would have everything you wanted?
I tend to follow my heart, but you must do what feels right for you. If moving with him doesn't feel right in the slightest then maybe you should try a long distance relationship to start things off and see where things go from there.
But i've been in one, and its hard. but if your meant to be then it will work out!