Most of us have probably had ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands, ex-girlfriends, etc. It is hard enough, at times, getting over an ex and trying to find new relationships. But what do you do when your ex has already "moved on" ?
I find that though I realize that my ex and I aren't a perfect match, it still hurts that it seems like he has moved on pretty fast. Since we are still friends, I have to be happy for him and accept that he may find another girlfriend whom is more to his liking. Sigh.
I have also come into the reality that at least one, if not more, of my exes is married. There is the guy who was probably a great catch, but I didn't like his personality, who is now married and living most likely in a very nice part of my area----he really liked me and gave me one of the nicest compliments ever. I feel like such a dummy for not giving him more of a chance.
There is a past ex whom I loved very deeply, and who kicked me to the curb sooooo fast. He wasn't really into bigger women, and tried to like me because of my personality and because he was lonely. But from how he acted towards me, I don't think he was attracted to me at all. never gave me a compliment. I really liked his personality and we got along great (a bit better than my recent ex, though my recent ex accepted me as a person), and he was very assertive and I would have really liked to have married him. But, I think he is now married to someone else. It hurts a bit because, well, he made it sooooo obvious that I was below him and not even worth a decent break up.
How have you dealt with getting over exes who have moved on to marriage or new girlfriends?