First off not to be insensitive to your plight but I take offense at the title of your post "Men Suck!!" "Men" don't suck .... your problem is with ONE man.
A man who KNOWS that something he is doing is causing marital disharmony within the marriage and yet continues with that action. This should tell you something. Like others have said both of you could use marital counseling.
My wife ran off when our daughter was 9 years old leaving me to raise her myself. We never heard from her or got one dime of support until my daughter was 17. Based on this experience I would NEVER say all women suck!!
I realize that you are hurt and sometimes people say things they don't mean but you should know that there are men on this forum too and we deserve to be respected just as you are.