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Originally Posted by kaplods
full of grace,
I think you taught me something today. I've been living very much as you describe, choosing to making changes leisurely, pleasanty; and I've been telling myself and others (even here) that this IS a valid option, but I realized in reading your post, that I so often feel, at least a little bit, as though I'm trying to apologize or justify my choices.
And I think it's because I have felt that I was the ONLY one doing it this way.
Maybe it was more myself than anyone else that I wanted to convince that it was "ok" to do it this way.
Being not just willing to lose slowly if there was no alternative, but actually choosing to lose slowly as the preference, well it's not just an unusual perspective, it's almost scandalously revolutionary.
Exactly.
At first, I felt ashamed to post here if I had a "slow loss week" or didn't move the ticker at all.
And then I thought to myself, "Who you doin' this for anyway, Grace? ... YOU!"
So, that changed my perspective.
I'm doing this for ME and that means I needn't be ashamed of how long it's taking.
I've DONE the yo-yo dieting many many many times over. I've gained and lost THOUSANDS of pounds in my lifetime and have dropped weight FAST and put it right back on FASTER doing all manner of things that other folks may find works GREAT for them. Good for THEM.
For ME, it's working this way. And I love it.
The other night, a friend I've known for a few years asked me what I was doing to look so good lately. "Being smart," I answered.
He wanted to know WHAT I was doing. Gym? Diet? What?
And I said, "Really, I'm just being smart. I'm eating less, I'm moving more, I'm making good choices every day, and I'm balancing out my 'play' choices--like social drinking--with extra exercise or an adjustment in calories, etc. I'm eating great food. No fast food... but if I wanted to have it I would have it. I'd just make another choice to balance it out to keep heading in the right direction."
But that's not as exciting as some trendy magic overnight drop-tons-of-weight type thing.
So, YOUR POST makes me see that really what I'm teaching people--outside of the specifics of my plan and how it's okay to go slowly--is that sensationalistic stories are fun to hear, but boring ol' me is quite happily over here dropping weight, getting healthy, and HAVING FUN.
(Life's too short, y'know?)
Yeah. You know.
Anyway. Thanks.