i'm in the middle of a nasty fight right now girls. i'll post later *sighs*
Ok here's what happened. Last weekend we had a fight because as usual, he doesn't help around here. Fight got ugly, and i got mad. He got his keys and his shoes on and I asked him if he was packing a bag. He said that he should. He went and spent the rest of the evening in the garage sober.
I went and poured out his big bottle of rum.
So today he's angry because "I didn't respect his stuff, so I didn't respect him." Then he threatened to go through my room, throwing away stuff to justify me throwing out his rum. I was calm until he told me I didn't respect him. I put up with too dang much of his crap. I work in a crappy office because he wants me to work there. I am back in school getting my degree, hoping it will benefit us in the long run. I clean the house, I stayed put while his sorry butt went off to disneyland. I entertained his lazy sister. I bought the lawnmowers, cut the grass, pay the bills, make sure HE has money since he won't get his own bankcard (since he keeps losing them) and all I wanted him to do was WASH THE DISHES.
Beyond that, I put up with the fact that he listens to his family more than me. They all wanted him to reenlist. He reenlisted so "we wouldn't starve." I'm guessing he thinks we can't live if he works somewhere else. Either that or he thinks that he's NOT gonna work if he's not in the air force.
My hands don't work well anymore. I wake up with tingly hands from my job. Makes it hard to do regular home stuff. But I take care of it. Otherwise it doesn't get done.
Not to mention that last year he drank all but one bottle of Patron......very expensive tequila that was a birthday gift a year before that. That's how much I valued it. I had ONE shot the entire year.....and it was in a margarita. Did he ever replace it? No. Did he ever replace my big bottle of premixed margarita that he drank....that was a gift as well? No.
But I poured out a cheap bottle of rum. And that's disrespecting him.
so I got tired of fighting. I hope mom's happy, i hope he's happy. Mom said "just give him what you've got" (i had a bottle of bacardi set aside to make holiday rumballs. I never got around to making them, but he took it upon himself to drink part of it because it was there)....so Mom's happy because i gave it to him so he's "not mad" at me anymore. He's happy because he's got replacement rum.
If he gets arrested for doing stupid crap.....that is HIS problem. If he calls a hooker tonight, that's it. This weekend's supposed to be our 9year anniversary. I wonder if we'll make it to 10. According to him I'm controlling. The way I see it, he's lazy.
I don't even want to go home to see my folks. Sad huh? Dad's drunk, mom's ticked off and i'm sure on her way thru a few beers, my brother's 15.
I want a vacation to Hawaii with my dog and my football team. I've had enough