I didn't know where else to post this but the chatter section because there's not, that I'm aware of, an actual forum for relationships and the like.
Yes, I'm talking about "that" kind of obligation, the obligation some of us feel to "perform" for our husbands whether we want to or not.
I don't know, maybe no one else feels the way I feel, although I'm really hoping I'm not alone.
To put this as openly as possible without being too blunt, I don't desire sex with my husband anymore. Well, we're not technically married, but we've been together 16 years and have a son together, who is 7 years old. My 'husband' still desires me but I don't desire him. In fact sex with him, just the thought of it, repulses me and anytime I do it, which isn't very often, it's because I'm "performing my duties" to keep him somewhat satisfied and can't wait until it's over.
I don't need advice or criticisms, I just want to know if any other women feel the same as I do. I feel completely alone in this world