Hi Nicole, nice to meet you, too!
As far as the TT goes, on the whole I'd say it's not been too bad. I stayed at at a plastic surgery recovery spa for three days, and that was absolutely heaven. Coming home was not too bad - DH was there to take care of the kiddos. Christmas day is kind of a fog - me sitting in a chair watching them open presents is about all I can say for the day. Slept through most of it.
The drains are the WORST part of the whole thing. I ended up paging my surgeon new year's eve because one had popped the stitch holding it in and it was sliding out - and very painful. He had me come to his house (as he was in the middle of a new year's eve party) and pulled the drains right there on his couch. So embarrassing for me, but such a great guy to do that. Once the drains came out, I was a new woman.
The only other complication I have had is my incision popped open at about four weeks out (I'm almost six weeks out now). It's pretty gross looking, but a very superficial wound. Dr. says it's just going to take time to heal - one of the potential complications you can have. I'm pretty swollen still, but have no more loosey-goosey skin or stretch marks on my stomach. It's possible that at some point in my life I may wear a bikini (and I never thought I'd say that!)
Anyway, way more about me and the TT than you probably wanted to know, but I feel like I researched this and researched it, and there are just some things you can't know about until you do it (or until you meet someone like me - ready to share the real deal!).