MMM...I didn't go check the minute I got up and I've had to cups of coffee already...but I'll give it a shot. Okay...up a couple to 158ish. But I usually weigh myself right after I get up and pee. I'll try again tomorrow.
Father's Day was better than Mother's day. We got Derek a game for the playstation and some new clothes that he desperately needed, I made him heart-shaped scrambled eggs (I cooked them in a heart-shaped cookie cutter...it was messy, but I came away with about half the eggs in a heart shape

) and we mostly hung out all day at home. My dad was in Rochester still and didn't get home till 4pm, so I'll go over there today to give him his present. So, for lunch, I made Derek black bean salsa with chips and for dinner, two hamburgers with baked beans. Which may also explain my 2-3lb gain.
So, our party was a success. Derek ended up being a good sport about it and sat by the pool and talked to my two aunts. I actually felt really good after leaving....maybe for the wrong reasons, but....I was talking to family and friends and they all sort of had the same feelings of being at my sister's house as me. I didn't go up to people and say, "Doesn't this house make you feel like crap about your own house?"...but just about everyone I talked to felt her house is excessive. I mean, she has this pool that has changing colored lights in it like Niagara Falls! One minute its pink, the next its green, etc...its like she had it installed by Pep Boys. Now, I just want to say that it's not that I want people to dislike my sister or think she's a jerk or anything, but going to my sister's house instills such inferiorities in me...I guess what I'm saying is that it appears to make everyone feel this way. So, I guess it made me feel more normal and like my sister is the odd ball out. The other, almost more important thing I noticed is this...MY kids were mingling around and talking to the guests and were friendly...my sister's and brother's kids were all outside the pool area, in a little clump, all sitting amongst themselves being stuck up...in my opinion. I mean, I was taking my kids around and introducing them to everyone...so, my point is that my sister should maybe consider taking some of the energy she puts into making her house impressive and put it towards making her kids friendlier. In my opinion. Anyhow...I left not feeling like an outsider and feeling like I'm actually quite normal. Oh...and the party was great seeing people I hadn't seen since I was at least a teenager and babysat for them.
I have to post this recipe for Black Bean Salsa I made at the party:
1 can of Black Beans, drained
1 cup chopped tomatoes
1/2 cup chopped red onion
the juice of one whole lime
a few shakes of tobasco
chopped cilantro to taste...I used the leaves of about five plants.
Of course, I used corn tortilla chips, but if you want to keep it legal, use triscuits for dipping. This was soooo good. And rather impressive, if I don't say so myself.
Gator, Monet and Kaye: I will definitely make some time to talk to my sister about 'issues'. I, honestly, think that it's just that she's stuck up. I'm also really bad with confrontations, but I think for my family's sake, something needs to be said and shaken out. I don't want things to get so bad that we go years without talking. Honestly, I think we're all overly sensitive in my family and my mom especially is so worried about insulting my sister by having an opinion. It goes way back to when we were little and when my sister would have problems and would want to talk to my mom and my mom would get all mad like, "How dare you bring problems into our house..." and my sister would go to my gramma's house to talk about her woes...and then I think she was always standoffish to me because, as the baby of the family, I guess I got more attention than she did and now it's evolved into my sister being above it all and my mom not wanting to insult my sister by saying, "Hey, you are really rude to your little sister, like, ALL the time." and me being told not to rock the cart with my sister and it's all a jumbled up mess. So, anyway, I think an informal, family meeting of sorts is in order.
Anyhow..I have to go put some fertilizer on my tomatoes and flowers before it rains. Will be back later with replies...
Kris