Hello and Welcome I am also new here. Congrats on your loss so far.
You have a great attitude... "...my New Years resolution was to get tough and stop feeling sorry for myself..."
It doesn't matter that we don't enjoy it, or that we're discomforted by our efforts... we just need to do it!! 
Thanks Susan and ellis. Finding this site is going to be so beneficial for me, I can already tell. Hopefully I can do the same for someone else. As for what I like to do and eat... I'm not following any diet in particular. I've kicked the fast food habit which was a major stepping stone. I stick mostly w/vegetables,fruits,chicken,fish and turkey (beef rarely and NO pork). I make my own salad dressing, I tried some bottled dressing a few weeks ago and about gagged! Amazing how your tastes can change. The only thing I'm having a really hard time w/is the coffee. I use Splenda and reduced sugar creamer but sometimes I drink two pots a day. Gotta cut back on that. Basically I'm still in the learning phase, trying new things to see what I like and what I will be able to stick with. I firmly believe that whatever you do to lose weight is what you will have to stick with for a lifetime if you want to keep the weight off. I did lose 50lbs. using Herbalife but gained it back plus some extra. I'm not a really active person. As I said, I have a very physically demanding job and the weird hours on top of it wears me out. I am hoping that as I lose more weight I will gain more energy. I used to walk five days a week and I could walk five miles in an hour. I would like to be able to get back to that. I've thought about getting a Gazelle for the low impact aspect. The ol' knees ain't what they used to be. I'm just taking each day as it comes. If I fall off the wagon I just get right back on the next day and go from there. Thanks for listening-sorry if I rambled.
ur doin great chuckieb!
im a newbie here too, n hope i can get support or motivation from all u out there~ 
but its a complex carb so i have cut that down a little~ my weight goal is all about looking good before i turn 20
this year n also to stop mean relatives n/ ppl teasing me being fat.. *all my life*
my uncle used to compare his arm thickness with me, and always made all my cousins laugh at me..so my new year resolution is that i would have a damaged esteem anymore!
