! I joined a gym and started a workout on the guidelines of a trainer, but he didn't really get the chance to address my goals specifically, or my diet, so I was going to run it by you all to see what you think
I've been counting calories and trying deperately to cut the crap out of my diet (glad/sad to say I haven't eaten Burger King in 3 months - mixed feelings about that) I've been averaging ~1600-2000 kcal/day spread out into 5-8 small 'meals' I calculated my 'daily needs' from a number of formulas online to find that i need about 1600-1700kcal/day but the 'activity multiplication' factors are all over the map! Given my work out I'm not sure how much more/less I should be eating!Mon - Chest, shoulders, triceps, 20 min light cardio (light = HR 125-135)
Wed - back, biceps, abs, 30 min light cardio
Fri - legs, 20 min light cardio
Sat or Sun 30 min 'heavy' cardio, usually interval
I was told that I should do light cardio following weight lifting so as not to send my nervous system into a panic thinking it needs to start hoarding fat... Is that true? I thought that heavier cardio can have bigger (?) benefits... But I'm not finding any time to do heavier cardio. Really I can't jog for more than a few minutes straight without dropping over - I'd like to change that. But I'm spending 1.5-2 hours at the gym each night between the lifting and 20-30 min cardio. Originally the trainer told me I shouldn't expect to spend longer than 1 hr a day but with all the lifts he gave me I just can't do them all in that amount of time (I can post the exact lifts I do but I didn't want to spam you all right off the bat)! I thought I'd speed up but that hasn't happened. My ultimate goal is to lose about 15 pounds and then tone my large flabby upper legs. It's going slowly - I've lost about 8 pounds in 3 months (but I've only been doing the weight lifting for about 1 month, before that it was 3-4 days/wk of light cardio). When do you start to add weight in muscle following a lifting routine? I feel like something is out of whack - but can't figure out which part - the kcal intake, the workout, or the expectation
Any ideas?

There's a thread over in the Exercise forum -
I think that just a few tweaks would help you make it to goal a little faster.
! But I do work out at a satellite one called the 'adventure rec center' that has a rock climbing wall and lots of weight lifting machines and ellipicals
on the poundage gone!