Hey there everyone. I am the mother of 3 great little girls. I have been lucky in pregnany only gaining about 30 per kid. Well in the last few years my husband has gained about 50 lbs. total while I have gained and lost after birth. I feel like I am lucky in pregnancy while he feels that he is fat and insignificant. I have gone on numerous diets with him but I always get sick as I am hypoglycemic and he always goes on low carb diets that make me weak. I try to make him feel good about himself but his weight gain always gets him down. We bought an elliptical last week and he insisted I work out with him. I have lost 5 lbs and he has lost none so now he is upset again.. I do not know what to do because I am the way I am by nature not by trying to outdo him. I do not know what to do. I love him more than anything but he contantly makes me feel like I am trying to outdo him......