my 3 girls (teenagers) see mothers and fathers day as a really big thing, they plan it for weeks, they cook all the food and everything so i just dont want to spoil it for them by saying ummm cant eat that or this, my youngest said last night "you are gonna eat what we cook for you arent you mum" and i just dont want to disappoint them and spoil their day. I want to lose a few pounds before the op, im only about 20lbs overweight (now that i have lost the 6 on the first day) but i just couldnt bear to see their disappointed faces. I know some people would think differently but i just dont want my diet to become the priority in all our lives, not on a day when the kids put so much effort into it.
thats my one truly lazy day of the year, all i have to do is shower myself and get dressed and the kids do the rest, cool huh
chezza

My daughter is too far away to see on the day but I will probably hear from her.
As for the food, I think there is the 11th commandment thatthou must always eat what thy child has made with love 