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Originally Posted by sugar58
Ever since I've started this diet I have noticed I've been really depressed and I can't seem to shake it. Has anyone else experienced this? It's gotten to the point where I am like either go off and be happy or keep on it and continue to be depressed and I really don't like feeling this way.
sugar... this is something I posted back in July on the "Emotional Aspects" thread... hope it helps.
"Oddly enough...family & friends do have to get used to the changes in US when we change our approach to how we take care of ourselves. One of the very big changes in me is how many emotions I exhibit. I used to use food to "stuff down" anger, sorrow, frustration - without food as a crutch, they all come bubbling up to the surface - and I have begun letting them! As a result, my husband and my 12-year old have probably seen me express more emotion in the past 7 moths than in the years preceding my self-care journey!
As I lose weight, I am actually "controlling" my emotions less - I am trying to express them and process though them more. If I take them out of my "dark hole of a head" and pull them into the sunlight - unwrap them, reflect on them & get to know them- I can change the way I think about them. If I fear them, run & hide from them, eat to "banish" them...I am going to end up where I was. I was raised NOT to exhibit "negative" emotions, with messages that I was "faking it" when I cried, and that guilt was preferable to expressing anger - guess what, as a 42 year old woman, I have decided - THAT'S BULL****! I would rather externalize my feelings than internalize thousands of calories to try to suppress them."