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  • So I have lost 30lbs in 3 months and I went shopping and picked up this black dress. I have been dying to wear one just like this for quite a while, so when I tried this one I fell in love! Plus, it was a steal at $13

    Anyways, the reason I am posting this and putting myself out there is because I want to know if it looks ok on me. My boyfriend is taking me out Thursday night to dinner for our 7 year anniversary! And I want to look pretty! The picture isn't the greatest but the best I can do with webcam. I plan on getting control top pantyhose and wearing it with a pair of black pumps.

    If this newfound confidence is skewing my judgement on if I look good please tell me. I was so disconnected with my body when I was 30lbs heavier. I didn't see myself as fat sometimes, and now on this journey I feel more harsh on how I look now I just don't want to be fooling myself if I think I look good, but I don't.

    Any advice would be greatly appreciated!


  • Congrats on the weightloss!

    That dress is great on you, your hourglass figure is lovely
    And black pumps are gonna make your legs look so sexy and long :]
    Also I wouldn't lie. I'm a firm believer in telling people how they look (if they ask, clearly)
    So you have my vote. :P
  • Looks great to me! I think it will look fancy and sexy with hose and heels - rock it, girl!
  • You look great in the dress. All the curves in all the right places. Your boyfriend love it on you. I'm not so sure I would do the hose, maybe just a nice pair of sandals with heels or a black wedge. I never wear hose anymore, not even in the winter.
  • If you are doing a nice dinner, I would suggest hose.:-)
  • I like it!

    Do you have any other shoes though? I think a coloured heel (like pink) would really pop and be fun. I also think it would look good with a bling-tastic necklace...maybe something chunky. I usually only wear black shoes with a black dress if the shoes have some sparkly detail. That's just a suggestion though!

    SO basically it is a great LBD that you can use over and over with different assessories. Congrats!
  • It looks beautiful on you, don't worry. It hugs your curves and slims you down at the same time, your boyfriend will love it! I agree with wearing a statement piece of jewelry, like a chunky necklace. I also agree with Pepino about the shoes, perhaps black dress with black pumps would look too "serious", some fun colored shoes or sparkly ones would be more fun and flirty.
  • You look awesome! Nice legs!
  • You look great! And your legs look awesome! I too would wear it with black pumps, I like being all matchy-matchy though. Where did you get such a dress for that deal?
  • Thank you ladies I actually got it at Dots. I found it in clearance! I wanted to buy a dress just like this one for my goal, but this one will do good till I get there.

    I'm going to go shopping tomorrow and see if I can find any cute colored heels. And I'm doing pantyhose because my legs are just WAY too white lol
  • I saw some pantyhose that had really pretty designs in them I bet those would look great! ^.^
  • How about silver sandals ? If you go for silver shoes be sure you jewelry is silver as well . white gold, platinum, whatever you can afford.
    If you don't want silver, what about red sandals. I like black pumps but they look sort of winterish.
  • Love it! I agree with wearing pumps to show off those legs!
  • Or the colorful sparkly shoes lol
  • Quote: I like it!

    Do you have any other shoes though? I think a coloured heel (like pink) would really pop and be fun. I also think it would look good with a bling-tastic necklace...maybe something chunky. I usually only wear black shoes with a black dress if the shoes have some sparkly detail. That's just a suggestion though!

    SO basically it is a great LBD that you can use over and over with different assessories. Congrats!
    THIS!!!!

    I'd definitely hit it up with a pair of red pumps, or something equally as "popping". Don't mono-chrome yourself in black. You're not going to a funeral! - you're going to dinner! and I also agree with something very "bling" - a nice chunky silver necklace or pair of super-dangly earrings.

    Congrats on your weight loss!!! You look MAHHHHHH-VE-LOUS!!!!!