I just got through what I knew was going to be a sad phone call. My godfather, who has lived out in Calgary Alberta for over 30 years now, lost his wife yesterday. They have been married for about 50 years and now he's all alone. His son is going to be with him tonite but his daughter is also sick and can't even fly in for her mom's funeral.
I used to see all of these people socially when I was a child and young adult but I've lost track of them over the years, except for a Christmas card every year. These were friends of my parents who I could have had as friends but I didn't make overtures. Now it's too late.
I wish I could say this makes me feel like I should be closer to my dad but it doesn't.
Dagmar
