I am new here and have a question....

Is there anywhere which organizes people who want a buddies with other people who want them.

I know that I NEED this forum, but I also need someone who will keep me real and NOT be sympathetic. I have tried this many times, and I think what I want is someone who will not put up with any of my many and varied excuses

Anyway, is there any place on the forums to find that kind of companion?