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Originally Posted by BCGirl
Sorry - I should have been clearer
. I know I wont be able to go back to my regular (McDs 3 times a week, full bags of microwave popcorn a few days a week, candy every second day, blizzards after the kids' games each Sat).
This was my first diet and worked SO well, so really the question is can I (after a few months of strict maintenance) just make sure I'm taking in less than I'm burning off.
My only question is, if I'm watching my calories after I have lost the weight, is a baked potato with butter, or a panini with cheese and mayo destined to always be a "cheat". It's that mindset that I may have to adjust to, but I'm not sure I understand why if I'm able to stay within my acceptable weight range (especially with more exercise).
Thanks so much for discussing this with me
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If you adjust to that mindset, you WILL be successful. The "why" for me on thinking that way is that it keeps me from backsliding. I'm not an emotional eater, but dangit, I like good food! This was my first diet too...and my last.

The most important lessons I learned after a year on maintenance, with a brief return to Phase 1 (and having to phase off again):
If you follow Phase 4 strictly for say, 4-6 months, those habits become intuitive, and keeping the weight off doesn't feel like "work." When you start to deviate, you'll find that your pancreas is verrrry forgiving in the beginning, and it's easy to make the mistake of thinking you can get away with a lot. But...eventually your hormones adjust to what you're getting away with, and you gradually get away with less and less, which is when the pounds start to creep back on.
By the time you get to maintenance, you know (hopefully) that it's not just about "calories in, calories out," but that's still a big part of the equation for sure. Can you get away with occasionally having a glass of wine at lunch with the girls or indulging in a baked potato with butter and sour cream on a "non-cheat" day if you go to the gym and burn it off? Probably.

But there's so much variation in body types and metabolic rates, it's a good idea to give yourself a solid baseline period FIRST...then you'll be able to determine where the balance lies for you.
And there's always the option of swapping your big breakfast for a big lunch or dinner...instead of having proteins, carbs, and fats for breakfast, do it later in the day, and go with protein and fats for breakfast (hello, bacon and eggs!), and protein and carbs for your other meal.