Where I work, we had a biggest loser contest. The winner, Joe, is such a fun, sarcastic guy and he continues to work out hard 3x/wk.
Out of the blue, in front of my boyfriend and 2 of my kids, he says, "Hey! Go eat something! You're too skinny!".
Boy that really hurt. I work hard at building muscle. I prefer the word lean.
I don't get why others "get away" with insulting featherweights like that.
I would never in a million years tell him, "Good job winning the contest, but I can tell you gotta lay off the double cheeseburgers still."
Instead I just said, "I know" and left.