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Originally Posted by gigi1023
Hi...I am so happy I found this forum. Today was my first day. It was not so bad, however, I find myself doing things without even thinking (finishing my daughter's ice cream). The spoon was in my mouth when I realised it. Day 2 tomorrow...I was wondering, how long did it take before you started noticing changes? Am I allowed a "cheat" day? What do you do when you are invited to friends' houses for supper?
I think that fixing those unconscious habits is even harder than changing the way we eat! :-) I noticed changes in the first week. My tummy started to disappear even in the first week. It was great.
No, you're not allowed cheat days on this. Every time you cheat, it kicks you out of ketosis and you spend money (on the packets you are consuming to get back into ketosis) and lose momentum in your weight loss. Your coach should be able to help you out with figuring all of that out. Some coaches allow occasional cheat days for special events, but that is against official IP protocol. Again, talk to your coach about it.
When I go over to friends' houses for dinner, if they are a close friend (you know, that you can explain it to), I'll tell them that I'm on a pretty restricted diet and that while I absolutely don't expect them to cater to my dietary needs, I don't want them to be offended if I bring another protein for dinner, or only eat salad. Generally if we are going to a friend's house, I'll offer to bring something (always a salad!), so that I know that there will be something there that I can eat. Last month, we had a dinner party with my husband's band mates (whom I had never met) and all I heard was that the hostess was doing chicken and salad and then she asked us to bring dessert. Chicken and salad - safe right?

That's what I thought too. The salad was a green salad with apple, craisins, blue cheese & a raspberry vinaigrette. The chicken was a chicken casserole with lord knows what in it.
Sometimes you just have to adapt to the situation, try to make the best decision possible under the circumstances and move on. I had salad but tried to leave all the fuit & cheese and I ate the chicken but tried to push the sauce and extra stuff off to the side. It's not a situation where I would have felt comfortable calling the hostess and asking her to accomodate me (since I didn't know her) and so I tried to make the best decision I could while I was there. The farther along you get in the program, the more comfortable you will get with making these decisions and being proactive about your health.
Some people just hide out for a while and avoid going out to dinner with friends, being around other people, etc. Figure out how you can handle it and what is going to be best for YOU.