Linden Thanks for starting the thread!
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Originally Posted by rosemary2612
What a great afternoon. The sun was shining and it was 74 degrees out. While at work today I encountered the same advice from well meaning people. I am told on a daily basis, "Don't lose too much" and "you are just about finished aren't you?". I think people get use to seeing me "fat" and can't get use to me at a lesser weight. I am 5'2" tall for crying out loud and I still weigh 187. I have 62 pounds that I still want to lose. I have a bad knee, I am an insulin dependent diabetic, and I have high blood pressure. I need to be at a lower weight just for the health benefits. Who knows, maybe I won't need to lose that much, but I really wish people would not tell me that already. It discourages me - thanks for being here and letting me vent a little.
You may be right, that they're so used to seeing you a particular way that they can't imagine anything different. That's their limitation not yours, thank goodness. A whole lot of things wouldn't exist if it weren't for someone seeing the possibility of something new.
Smile sweetly, thank them for their advice/concern, and keep on trucking with your plan for your health. Let them worry about their own bodies. And if they don't leave you alone, just give 'em
salesgod's line, "Kiss my steadily shrinking backside." (seriously Dave, you might want to register or TM that!)
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Originally Posted by kaarin
It's late, but I just had to share this. I am on day 5 and this evening was my first real test of willpower this week. I hosted a going away party for a work colleague that was planned weeks ago.
While everyone was enjoying glasses of wine and nibblies like Bits and Bites (my favourites!) and crackers and cheese, and chips and dip, I still managed to have a great time with my wine glass filled with Grapefruit Perrier. And THEN we served up dinner of lasagna, cesear salad and garlic toast. But I had a chicken breast, broccoli and cauliflower and salad.
I am so proud of myself and it actually wasn't that hard. I can do this!
I'll see your carrot and raise you two broccoli

Great job managing an early challenge. You're right --

You CAN do this!
I didn't think clothing changed much in size after it's made and been washed, apparently it does. The clothes I purchased in August have grown.
My morning scale visit shows no change over the last week. I'm only a little disappointed, mostly curious about what could be going on. A busy, fun, engaging week at work has had me paying less attention to my eating and I've probably been lighter than required on the vegetables. We shall see at the official weigh-in on Monday.