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What is the v-trim diet? I'm not familiar with it.
Two thoughts:
1. I read the following on
www.hussmanfitness.org the other day. I cannot vouch for the qualifications of the author -- just that this statement made a lot of sense to me re: whether or not you will lose on too few calories.
If you are having trouble losing weight, it is wishful thinking to believe that eating more calories will help. Do not use the BMR calculation as a reason to increase your caloric intake. Even if you were taking in far too few calories, you would still lose lots of weight, but part of it would be muscle. So if you're losing neither fat weight nor scale weight, most probably you're eating too many calories that you aren't counting. (I write this because the research on this point is clear). You have to run a caloric deficit when you total it up over the full week, counting any free day. Sadly, some people use the BMR calculation and their free day to justify overeating. This is unfortunate. The only way to lose fat is to create a persistent, daily, sustained caloric deficit. Eating more frequent and smaller meals can help, but it is is superstition that simply eating more will help you to lose fat.
Very low calories may make you tired, cold, cranky, etc, but it should still result in
some weight loss. Yes, you may plateau. Yes, over time you may develop the side effects seen in anorexics. Yes, you will have trouble building muscle mass no matter how much you lift weights, because you are not giving your body enough fuel to create muscle (Petite Powerhouse, I'm betting this affecting your experience a lot since you lift so much!). I am not endorsing low calories, because I believe a lot of people start unnecessarily low, just saying I read this and it intuitively makes sense. (that said, lots of people on 3FC swear by eating more to lose more)
2. Being that you are post-menopausal, you may just need to give it more time. Your body's chemistry is different from those of us who still experience the joys of our cycles

and it wouldn't shock me at all if it makes weight loss just a much slower process. You may want to post on the Weight Loss forum or in the appropriate age group to hook up with other women in the same boat. (but please continue to post here, too, cause we Feathers like to flock together!)