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Originally Posted by HotWings
This is me exactly! Every time I tried something else - diets with things completely cut out or very, very limited.. like low carbing or something, I could never stick to it because I always wanted what I could not have. Now, instead of telling myself I can't have it, I tell myself I can have it, but do I want it? It's a mind trick, but losing weight is 99% mental to me.
yep, it's the mental part that makes the difference. I've known HOW to lose weight for 25 years. It's actually DOING it that is the problem.
A huge thing for me is that I don't consider this a diet, I consider this the way I'm going to live the rest of my life. And I'm not going to live the rest of my life and never again have chocolate or ice cream or potato chips or whatever. But the problem was that I was having them every day (not everything every day, but some treats/junk, etc. every day). So for me, the happy medium is that if I really, really want something, I can have it, as long as I work it into my plan. I posted on another thread about how I had a work lunch yesterday and ended up eating the chips that came with my salad. I adjusted what else I ate for the day, including changing a higher calorie/higher fat supper I had planned for something else, to make up the extra room for the chips.
I think that part of why I failed in the past is that I tried TOO hard - if I wasn't cutting out everything bad, I was off my diet, so I just kept going and gaining from there. Now, I'm not ON a diet, so I can't fall off. The worst I can do is make one bad choice, but then I can also make a good choice the very next time - not the next day, not even the next meal, but the very next bite, I can make a better choice.