It's a gorgeous day here in the Bay Area...we were up pretty late last night (babysitting for my sister - if Jim doesn't have a gig he usually stops by to watch TV - the kids LOVE their Uncle Jim!). Slept til 7 am which is LATE for me, woke up and went to the gym for a cardio session...I hope today we go bike riding along the levee - there's a 15+ mile paved bike path that runs along the San Francisco Bay Shore from Burlingame all the way down to Redwood Shores. It's great because not only do you get the lovely bay views but (with the exception of a couple of breaks) there is NO car traffic to worry about. Sawyer Camp Trail (at the Crystal Springs Lake/San Andreas Dam) is also gorgeous but tends to be VERY crowded on weekends.
I have to share this - hope it doesn't sound like a brag though

Last night I went to sister's to babysit - they have a couple of friends visiting from New York and SoCal - both guys. We sat and chatted a bit before they left - the New York guy I have met a couple times before but hadn't met the SoCal dude. Jim wasn't there yet - he usually practices his guitar a bit before he makes his way to sister's. I was sitting next to my sis, and the SoCal guy said "I noticed you were flexing your muscles - I'm impressed!" Actually I wasn't flexing - I was just sitting there - so I said, "I wasn't flexing - THIS is flexing" and I struck a bit of a pose. I guess he was impressed - didn't think much of it. Later on, after they came back from their outing, Jen pulled me aside and told me that this guy could NOT stop talking about me during the entire dinner!! Jen had to break the news that I was already happily married - and she said he was VERY disappointed...

(fortunately Jim isn't the jealous type - we're pretty secure in our relationship.) I found it EXTREMELY flattering!
When I look in the mirror, sometimes I see MuscleGirl and sometimes I still see vestiges of FatGirl, so it's nice to get that kind of validation from others - that way I KNOW I'm on the right path...
Had my riding lesson yesterday - I love to canter

At this point, I really CAN'T give up my equine activities. Next year I want to get a part-lease on one of Dee's show horses and maybe do some schooling shows...Riding gives me such a feeling of freedom, of being one with the horse, I'm hooked! And my bodybuilding is helping me become a better rider, I know this.
Mel - that's exactly the way I feel about this whole thing. I really want to LOOK like I can compete more than actually getting on stage and doing it. Especially with the money factored in. One of the gals at the Comp board told me that just posing suits and shoes alone for her came to well over $300! And that's not counting the coaching/training. EVERY SINGLE ONE of the competitors at L&S has had professional training and coaching. Last weekend, "Swlsue" competed and she posted the pix at
www.leanandstrong.com 's Events gallery. If you look at one of the pictures - the posedown pic - you can see that one of the competitors did NOT know what she was doing as far as posing, etc. I saw that at the comp I went to as well - if you don't have the posing down, basically you just end up looking foolish!
Another thing that has been eating at me - is working hard to get down to below 10% BF for basically ONE DAY. Most of the competitors gained a substantial amount of weight back the week following their comp - I don't want to do that

In retrospect, for me, I just don't feel it would be the healthiest thing to do - mentally or physically. I'm also not ready to stop taking BCPs for 5-6 weeks prior to a comp - it's recommended for women to do that to keep from retaining water.
Lanaii - I know JUST where you're coming from - I've been hitting the gym in the AM for probably five YEARS, but spent my time being a cardio bunny :sheep: until discovering BFL

and the benefits of weight training...and proper nutrition. BFL is a GREAT program to learn the basics of bodybuilding. It's funny - more and more of the gals at the gym have been coming up to me - asking what I've been doing and that they've been watching me for the past year or two - seeing my progress. In speaking with them, I find that most of them are SCARED of lifting heavy weights - they think they're going to 'bulk up' like a guy. I just tell them, 'look at me - I haven't bulked up - muscles on a woman are SEXY'. As long as you don't take steroids (yuk - who would want to?) you are NOT going to look like those freaky female bodybuilders that you sometimes see in the hardcore muscle mags - you are going to look lean, strong, attractive, and assertive!
Enough for now - everyone have a super day!