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Originally Posted by mom2cass&em
I am going to take my measuremnt later today...I have some from 8/08 to compare it to. I totally forgot to take them in January when I started the Shred
NO, I didn't listen to the radio show, just discovered it lol.
Oh can not wait for your measurements, I am sure you have results
Well I have to admit, when I woke up this morning to go to the gym, I thought I can not move. My butt and my calves are dead from yesterday (I decided to do all level 1 JM exercises for those areas yesterday...I guess it was too much for one day). But I said I will not give up. So I went at the gym, and I managed to do 40 min of stepper (I managed to do it till level 12 from 20, and I just started at the end of last week, I am proud lol).
My husband and probably the whole gym was staring at me how red I was. Not even half way I was ready to quit and faint, but no, no

You know girls what I realized today? I don't think you all know, but I am helping my hubby to lose weight too. He has gone from 315 to 270. He has reached a plateau. He has kept it for awhile. I have changed the program for him, he eats pretty good, but he is nosy with the workout. I noticed from last program, when we had to do the cardio part, no more, he wanted home. Now when he has no choice because we have days of only cardio, he doesn't do it for too long. Actually, he can not concentrate. And him wondering around my ***, or in the gym doing it all wrong, it kinda makes me wanna quit and fulfill his wish of going home (or like yesterday, skipping). I hate to say it, but he is not a good gym buddy. And I have no choice for now, he has to drive (till I learn, get a car and get familiar with the place).
And sometimes I am sooooo tired of kicking his *** too, when I have mine to carry. He starts well, then he gets worse and worse. After I talk to him, and get him back on track and motivated, he starts all over again. He asked for my help when he realised he can not do it. I think he is down because he did it once, he got to a normal weight a few years ago. And now it is not working the same. It is not fast, his metabolism changed, he is older, and the weight that he gained back since then is probably on a different habit. It just doesn't work the same... His problems are back in childhood with the weight issues. And I am sorry to say it, but the way he was taught by his folks (and he knows it and agrees his parents didnt followe their european style)and the american system is part of one. And even my weight since lasts months is based on this. I am not walking anymore. I can't. Where? You need a car here. I used to walk miles and miles back home in Europe. Pedestrian roads were not an issue. And maybe safety too. I had to "teach" my husband the concept of walking outside, on a road, on anything but not a treadmill. He barely could. He made improvements but he has a loooong way to go, and his motivation on doing that is not helping him. His feet are not made for walking, that is how they grew.
Anyways, I got you bored already

. Bottom line is, I need someone to push me, not be a turn off in the gym. And for now I have no choice. I guess tonight a new talk with him is in order and get him motivated again. I have to remind him his blood tests he took 2 weeks ago, and they were perfect, and cholesterol, and blood pressure and all. The doc knows him and he was thrilled. He needs to get back on track! Nobody said it would be easy though!
This reminds me on a post I made on motivational quotes:
Whether you think that you can, or that you can't, you are usually right. Henry Ford
Argue for your limitations, and sure enough they're yours. Richard Bach
OK, enough excuses, I am preparing to do the JM circuit now and update my workout for today with more.