I think you may have answered your own question here.
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allow myself a splurge on the weekend I always do where i dont cound points for one day.
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I have tried to stay within a certain point range even with the splurging and I have a problem with it all the time.
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So basically in a nutshell I notice when I say eat better all week like fruits, veggies, etc then maybe only have chocolate ont eh weekend or only splurge one day on the weekend I loose more.
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Im a big snacker, I love chocolate. I love fried foods. I dont want to deprive myself, but at the same time again i notice with the "denser' food slike fruit i loose more.
Sounds like your "plateau" is the self-induced variety. In order to lose weight,
consistiently, that is you just may have to buckle down and do what has
proven to work for you.