I agree that using a calorie log like fitday helps. In the past when I have had periods of success it has ALWAYS been in conjunction with using fitday to log calories.
I am right there with you though about not really knowing where to begin. It just seems so overwhelming. I am going to take it one day at a time, and when that gets to hard, maybe one meal at a time. I am a military spouse and I am sort of dealing with it like I dealt with my husbands first deployment. It just seemed so unGodly at the start, so totally overwhelming, so impossible, but with his deployment there really wasn't an option of failing - not if I wanted to stay married. So, I only focused on one day at a time and would stop myself if I started to think too far ahead, or think about how I would handle the holidays (oddly enough the holidays are also a time of concern now with weightloss). I would just let myself cry, or take that "deer-in-the-headlights" moment and then move on. And that is my plan for this life change as well.
One pound, one meal, one work-out, one day at a time.
