Just wanted to add, I know what it's like!
The "cornbread" thing is just a joke, because having a big butt is kinda popular in the south I guess and women who are naturally prone to it, well if they gain weight fromt fatty foods it's going to their butt.
If I eat it it's going to my tummy and arms.
So it is what it is...it was decided when we were little fetuses what our bodies we're gonna look like. So without plastic surgery I could never have a body like Beyonce, or Kim Kardashian, or so on. And I hate that a lot but I've come to terms with it. Having a small butt is looked down on so much these days.
But do whatever else says and build up the muscle, it will make it round and firm which looks awesome. I've been doing squats and can definitely tell a difference.