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I dont see why you think im "setting myself up to fail"
I think you'll see that phrase here frequently and what it means is this: You're setting unrealistic goals that you simply CANNOT meet. That means you WILL fail to meet your goals - even though it's not YOU failing, but a bad goal. Even more, it's probable that when you don't meet those goals, you'll get so frustrated that you give up or binge or sabotage yourself somehow out of anger and despair.
That's what everyone means by "setting yourself up to fail".
3lbs a week consistently is simply not realistic and not doable. You might lose that much at first. Or you might not. I didn't actually see the scale move until over a month into my plan, although I knew I was losing fat and building muscle. Currently I've been at 172 for about a month - with fluctuations of 2-3 lbs up and down either way.
But as I've said here before - your body is not a calibrated mechanical object. How much weight you lose will depend on so many factors including your hormone levels, the amount of water you drink, the amount of salt you consume, the changes in the weather and temperature, even how much sleep you get. You have to give yourself wiggle room for the fact that you're HUMAN!
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