My boyfriend and I had a huge falling out and our relationship is definitely in limbo (if not over). I don't think we're going to see each other on Valentine's Day.

Which makes me really, really sad.

I know there are many others dreading Valentine's Day, so this is what I "propose."

Let's give ourselves our own Valentine's Day present. Reaching a Valentine's Day Goal.

What's yours?

Oh man, what a great thread ninteen! I mentioned in other threads that I just went through a breakup and am struggling to stay positive and on-course in the aftermath... especially because I just learned that he may ALREADY be with someone else, but anyways...

My Valentines Day goal will be to fit into a pair of black Lucky Brand pants from when I was thin. They are a size 4 but a generous 4, and I'm not sure how close they are to fitting because they're with my things at school, but I think it's an attainable goal!

i love this idea, me and my boyfriend of 3 yrs just broke up new years, and i need something to look forward to and keep me busy. my plan is to just get as healthy as i possible can by then and stick to going to the gym , i do have a goal dress that i bought online that said extra large but its tiny. . . . i have about 6 inches to go :: finger crossing::

Well im just single and bitter. All my gfs have either husbands or bfs, So mostly likely i will be spending that holiday alone. But its k. I have never had a guy for vday anyways Maybe next yr

like many other girls in the world i will be single on valentines day. I was hoping that this year would be different but sadly its not im not gonna stress about it though. i'm sure ill be spending vday with my hot guy friends. My goal by then as stupid as it may seem is to finally get a gym membership and try to go at least 3 times a week. im starting small so as to not dissapoint myself. Good luck to all of you

Single... oh so single!
But not too depressed about it, I haven't had a serious boyfriend in over a year now... and all of my short-term romances this summer in Ireland have long but fizzled out. I don't really feel up to getting back into dating until I feel happy in myself anyhow.
And lets be honest. I do NOT feel happy in myself right now.

SO, my Valentine's goal is a competition I'm already in. It's the "10 by Feb 10th" challenge in the "Chicks up for a challenge" thread!

Anyone else wanna join in? I'm losing ten pounds by Feb tenth!! RESOLVE! *amazonian woman tough grunting noise while flexing muscles!*

yes! holy **** this is what i needed! what are the goals chicas? mine is to get my head out of my butt and get serious. no more saying its ok to binge tonight. its not. it just makes me unhappy and i dont deserve that.

i had a horrendus week of boys this past week. am wearing my girls rule boys drool shirt in spirit.

ugh. undependable, no good, cheating, cheap, flakey, unresponsible, smooth talking, lamo of a "friend" i thought i had. let me tell you. not happy! ha.

ok anyways im in ladies! im single and im proud! or i keep telling myself so. haha i figure ill be not single for MOST of my life (god willing) so i should enjoy the benefits now.

Jelbb, I'd love to join in! But I do suppose that would mean I have to climb on the scale first and I haven't yet. Today I spent about five minutes staring at it trying to talk myself on it.

In highschool if friends and I were single on valentines day we would always head to the dollar store (more bang for your buck!), stock up on cute things and lots of balloons and have them delievered to each other during class. It was always so fun even though we knew it was coming some time during the day!

i second that...even with all that i have been through in 2007...all the heartache...i still have hope...my life tells me there is no hope...but i believe in love and i will continue to look for it...as far a valentine's day goes i've only had two valentine's day in my entire life where i've had a bf...so it's normal for me...

GREAT THREAD NINETEEN!!!

Get on that scale, darling! Get your starting weight! It's never a fun thing really (unless you're less than you thought you were!) but it's worth it in the long run. Even if it's a super-high number now, it's gonna shrink like mad when you're working your butt off!
Let me know when you're joining in!!

I want to join too!! I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years however I'm in a bit of a different situation, I was the one that made the breakup decision and I'm so glad I did and so glad to be single! But yeah, there's still that whole single-on-valentines-day thing to contend with!

My goal is to be down to 186 by V-Day, that's a 5 lb. loss. Aside from the scales my goal is to get my eating under control. I'm doing cardio and lifting weights like crazy and loving it....but not losing because I'm still eating like crazy too!!

Yay! Totally a do-able loss by V-day!!! Man, all this stuff always pumps me up, hehehe.
Stick around, hope to see more of you on here between now and your goal day!

I'm right there with ya hon. I have no clue what I'll do on v-day either. Maybe rent a couple chick flicks and have myself a good cry. Maybe hang with my sister and her fiance, I don't know. *sigh*

ETA* Ad far as a goal, lets say to lose 7lbs. That will put me at 241 I think it's doable, I just gotta keep myself on track.