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Old 06-07-2006, 06:57 PM   #1  
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We are starting to look into houses in another state. My husband is getting out of the Army and we are relocating to the Houston area. It's frustrating and stressful since we can't be there for this, but we are planning a trip there next week.

My question is to all those who have gone through this or even just bought a house in the same area. This is my first house, so I'm not really sure about the process. Will it be hard since we are out of state? Like so hard we should just concider renting so we can house hunt while we live there? How many times do you recommend looking at the house after making an offer?

Any advice you want to give me? I'd sure welcome any that you could give me. Thanks in advance!
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Old 06-07-2006, 07:31 PM   #2  
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I recommend renting for a short while so you can get a feel for the area before you buy. Sure, you can look online and perhaps find a great home, but what if the rest of the neighborhood stinks? Once you move, drive around and look at areas and make lists of areas you like. Go to open houses. Join something (church, gym, etc.) and ask people there what their opinions of different areas are. Get a real estate agent and shop, shop, shop. And have fun! I loved looking for my first house! We're now on #3.
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I completly agree with above, we rented after hubby got out of the military, and that was for the best, we ended up in a completly different area in Dallas than originally. We got to know the area, where we wanted to live, all that, now buying the house that was easy, only took a month, so I would say rent, get to know everything, then buy a house. Dont rush into it, after all selling a house is much more difficult than breaking a lease....... Good Luck!! :-)
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I agree with the advice you've gotten---check out the area first!

However, if you want to do a preview of the real estate that is currently available try: www.realtor.com

It has over 2.5 million listings nationwide
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I got transfered with my job at the end of 2004 which meant buying a house in a new city in a new, never been there before state. All of the advice people gave you above is solid and on the mark.

Where I moved to there are 4 main towns here plus the city. I spoke to as many people as possible to get their opinions. Using that we were able to hone it town to one specific town we preferred over the others. We then used www.realtor.com to find listings we were interested in. I had to make a overnight business trips here and I would schedule them for a Friday or Monday so that we could look at houses over the weekend. We found one we loved and were about to make a serious bid when the inspection report came back. When we found out the house needed about $60,000 in repairs - we ran as fast as we could away from that deal. With no place to move to, we paid a premium for a short term lease and rented an apartment for 3 months - we took just the minimum of what we needed to the apartment and left the rest of our stuff in storage. We found a wonderful house within 3 weeks of moving here. We took a gamble on just taking a 3 month lease but we kind of knew which areas we wanted to live in and there was quite a bit on the market to choose from. With the 3 month lease we were already paying a premium rate and they would have let us renew on a month by month basis if we needed it. We figured that was a better deal for us over being locked into a 1 year lease.

You should try and find a realtor in your new area. Ask for someone who specializes in relocation. Tell them what's important to you. Things that influenced our decision included:

- house price
- size of lot and privacy (I wanted a back yard with mature trees. Many of the newer subdivisions consisted of bulldozed lots that didn't have trees and the lots were right on top of each other - you could easily see over the fence to all of your neighbors - felt like you were in an arena).
- taxes - some towns have both city and county taxes, some just had county taxes. Many people wouldn't even consider living in the towns that had dual taxes. Ask too if there's a homeowner's association and if so, what are the dues and is it mandatory to join. Ask if you can get a copy of their by-laws to look over, just in case you find you're moved into an area that tells you what colors you can paint your house and what your mailbox has to look like.
- school systems - the suburban school system was far superior to the city school system. Even tho we don't have kids, we picked the town with the better school system because of future resale value on the house. We got more money for the house we sold because it was in an excellent school district.
- Commute time. There are 2 towns out here than basically have one major road into and out of town. I had no desire to spend 60 to 90 minutes sitting in traffic twice a day just to go 14 miles or to get a house a little cheaper than in other areas. If you find an area you're interested in, go there during rush hour just to gauge what traffic is like.
- Access to shopping. Crime rates are higher around malls - it's a proven fact just because there's more tempting things for criminals to steal around malls (purses and money, cars and packages). Another thing about shopping is that sometimes living in the country is nice but having to drive 45 minutes to an hour to get to the store (with gas approaching 3 dollars a gallon) is not so nice. We had friends who moved to a rural area outside of Fort Worth. It was pretty and the housing was much cheaper but she said she took for granted what it's like when there's no local pizza places or fast food joints or even a place to run out to at night when you're out of milk. And they had to buy a refrigerated cooler for the car so that her meat and frozen things didn't go bad on the long drive from the grocery store back to the house.

Find out as much as you can about the demographics of an area. We did alot of research on the Internet. Most of the towns had a municipal website that gave information about the demographics and moving into the area.

My niece moved to Houston 2 years ago from Wisconsin. She had a great apartment close to the water. After one year she moved closer to the city - apparently the traffic's pretty heavy there so she moved closer to her job, new friends and the night life.

Good luck with the house hunting! I would look at a house at least twice if you're seriously considering it. Try to find at least 3 things you can identify that will need some repair or that you'd change out - if you don't and it's all glorious and wonderful than maybe you're looking at it with blinders on. But you will also know it when you find the perfect house for you. Should not be a problem that you are from out of state - the mortgage company will run a credit check to qualify you same as if you were buying in your home state. If you find a place you love, I would very strongly recommend that you make an offer contingent on a home inspection, particularly if you're not very familiar with construction and electrical and plumbing and couldn't really tell yourselves if there was hidden or obvious problems. I think it's worth the price of an inspection for either peace of mind or to keep you from finding the home of your dreams is a money pit in disguise.

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Old 06-11-2006, 11:01 AM   #6  
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Hey thanks everyone. I've been talking to a realtor that really knows the area. Plus she is very nice and helpful. We know what area we want to move to based on what others have said and how far we want to drive to work/school. Plus they have good schools around there.

We are making a trip there later this week, so we will get to look at a bunch of houses. We've talked to the realtor, and she is going to show us as many houses as possible in this time. I'm hoping to see at least 20 houses. We already have some picked out and I'm trusting the realtor to pick out more.

The inspections take care of houses that have alot of problems. So we are still going to look into it. If by the time we need to move, we haven't found a house, then we will rent.
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Old 06-11-2006, 01:54 PM   #7  
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Just remember, the realtor is in this to sell a house and make $$$$. So if you don't like something say no and look some more or rent for a while and get a feel for the area. Good luck.
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We actually have a very picky list of what we want in a house. I'll be surprised if we find something this week. I'm prepared to rent, but I don't think hubby is. We'll see after the trip as to how likely it will be to rent or not.

I appreciate all the advice. Buying a first home is exciting but scarey. It's nice to know I'm not alone.
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Consider also that buying a house is a major decision. And you do not want to do it in a rush, with little time to consider everything, think it through, and on a deadline. That may also be a good reason to rent first. Make it an easy rent. Try to find something furnished month-to-month and box everything you don't need immediately for storage. Only keep those necessary items you might take if you were staying in a hotel. So when you do find a place you're definately sure you want, moving is a cinch.

It will be easier than making a snap decision on a house you like, then finding one you absolutely loved and would have preferred, weeks after you move into your new home and have signed the papers.
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I sympathize with hubby, I hate to move and the prospect of moving into a rental only to move again in a short period of time would be daunting. However, that is exactly what we did when my dh got his first job. We were able to figure out the right area for us just on exploratory visits to the city--we just couldn't make the right property appear on a moment's notice. If there is a house you like, then great, go ahead and buy but be prepared to rent because once you buy a house, if you don't like it, it is a huge hassle to unload and for income tax purposes you shouldn't resell for 3 years. Good luck--BJ
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I think the key is having a good realtor who knows the area well. Yes, they are out to make a sell but...there are some out there that look out for the buyer also. Because if the buyer ain't happy...the realtor isn't going to be. We went through this moving from KS to OK and the transition was great! We had a great realtor who knew the area and when we saw a house that we liked that wasn't in such a great area she let us know. So there are some good realtors out there that aren't just in it for the sell. Well, they all are in in for the sell but you know what I mean. But Houston is a GREAT area! Lots to do and the University is the best! Well, one of the best...Best wishes on your move and keep us posted.
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Having lived in Houston for 10 years, I would definitely recommend not committing to buy a house until you get to know the area. Houston is a huge city and there are a lot of nice areas to live and a lot of variety of types of neighborhoods to live. The far north area of Houston (The Woodlands & Kingwood areas) is thickly covered in beautiful tall trees and forests and are very beautiful places to live. If you go south/southwest of Houston you will be closer to Clear Lake and the Galveston area, if you want to live close to the water. Many of the trendier and upscale areas located near downtown Houston are River Oaks, Rice University area (very upscale) and The Heights/Montrose area (older established area with view of the downtown skyline and lots of antique and quaint shops and restaurants). If you want to live more away from a "big city feel" then West Houston, North Houston/Spring area & Sugarland areas are very popular places to live with are very suburban "family" neighborhoods. A plus for you is that Houston has a remarkably low cost of living in comparison with most major US cities. It wouls be hard to decide where you want to live until you've been there for a little while and gotten to know the city. I also agree that you'd definitely want to consider the commute time. Traffic can be a real nightmare.

Best of luck on your move. I hope you find the perfect house for you and your family!
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