I'm scared to persue my singing career bc of my weight!Its holding me back from life!
My producer is pushing me to start putting my music up on youtube and start performing, but I am scared to death!!! I feel like people are going to judge me on my weight, you know how the music business is!! Ughhhh.... I wish I wasn't so scared all the time and insecure bc of my weight But Im so ready to do it though, I feel anxious & I'm in the age where its now or never!! JUst wish I wasn't so scared I just put up my 1st cover and I almost had an anxiety attack bc I know people will judge me bc of my weight. I just wish I was a person that didnt give a ____ what people thought!!! Uhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Please Help I desperately need advice. I have already missed on some oppurtunitys bc of my insecurities and weight. I feel like Im stuck in a hole and I cant dig myself out. Its driving me crazy and all i do is cry bc Im so miserable. Im on Weight Watchers now and working out every other day but i still feel so large and insecre and just sick of my weight!! Im so depressed and feel so stuck.
thanks so much Tessendicott!! Its just really hard in this business. I was already told I need to drop 60 more lbs to become a + size model!! I looked at the lady & said WHO SAID i EVEN WANTED TO BE ONE! SHe was some lady that just came up to me!! geeeeez people can suck at times
I am amazed at how many times in the last 24 hrs I've said that to people here.
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You are so beautiful and your voice is absolutely AMAZING. People judge at every size. Theres always something that someone, somewhere will nitpick about. Just can't worry or pay attention to things like that.
Your working on your weight and your down by so much so congratulations on that. If you don't take opportunities you will look back in a few years and regret. Good luck and I am offically a fan of yours now. Seriously. VOICE=AMAZING
I would definitely go for it! If it really is now or never you dont want your weight to hold you back. Would your producer push you for it if they didnt think you could succeed? And we also have artists now like Adele that show you dont have to be, or want to be, a super skinny model to be successful at singing or whatever it is you want to do in your life. I would go for it!
Do it !! A talent like yours is meant to be shared. Many overweight singers have had great success. Think Adele. You are too young to remember Kate Smith but she was an overweight singer from years ago and had a very succesful singing career and of course opera stars are not all model thin. Do not deprive the rest of us from your wonderful talent. Do it !!
I think you look fabulous! People will judge regardless of what weight you're at because you're a singer. I think you should go for it!
I agree besides look at Adele she's not rail thin, and has an amazing voice.
Christina Aguilera is absolutely stunning with her weight gain and has an amazing voice.
Kelly Clarkson was never a skinny girl either American Idol told her to get thin or she'd never make it anywhere and look at her now amazing.
Three amazing beautiful singer's who have weight issues who battle the press and the negative but love themselves and are doing what they love! You should do it, it doesn't matter because in the end people are going to judge you.
Well, here's the thing. You'll be criticized no matter what, only because people love criticizing other people. Look at Angelina Jolie at the Oscars. People are criticizing her for being too skinny! and that she should eat a cheeseburger! People do judge at every size and no matter what, and like 99% of the time, the judgement isn't warranted. It's ridiculous, and people suck.
So don't let the haters hate, because haters gonna hate. I mean, look at Adele! She's so freaking fabulous and such an amazing singer and has how many Grammys? and people still call her fat! people are stupid and jealous and you know she don't let the haters hate!
Christina Aguilera is absolutely stunning with her weight gain and has an amazing voice.
SERIOUSLY. "The Voice" was playing when me and the boyfriend went for burgers a couple of weeks ago, and neither one of us could stop staring at her boobs.
look you have nothing to be ashamed...the weight is a part of your personality and you should pursue your dream now otherwise you will always lookback and regret for not doing it when you had the chance. and chances come and go, you have to use it.
adele is one of my favorite singers, i watch her royal albert hall concert every day ...yes every day on youtube, and she is a wonder...she can fill up a place with just standing in one place without jumping around and doing some ridicolous choreography and that is what is important. you can be famous singer without performance...it's your charm, charisma and your TALENT! SO DON'T WASTE IT!!!good luck