HI KITTYCAT ~ I'm sorry to hear that your DH's business is "BOMBING" as you put it, but it isn't becuz we didn't pray ... becuz we did. I don't know what kind of business he is in, but with the US economy floundering the way it is right now, some businesses are really slowing down, and some are being closed down altogether.
That isn't becuz they are bad businesses, but when things get tuff, people change their priorities and make huge cut-backs: here they stop taking taxis and walk, buy only sales, cut out luxeries, and cut down to basic necessities only. So that hurts any businesses that offer things that aren't absolutely necessary, ie people cancel plans for trips; or repairs on their houses or planned additions; or that newer car or body repairs, and so on ... and there is a huge ripple effect as well.
Last night someone asked me to pray for a new architectural intern to get a full-time job in a field that has almost screeched to a halt; I thought ... eeks, I hope he is willing to start with only part-time or as a dishwasher becuz that may be all that is available right now until the economy gets better; and I was thinking -- gee, I wouldn't have chosen that career when the economy is so bad ... and that goes for the art field and marketing too.
This year, if people have to choose between a piece of jewelry or food, they will choose the food and forget the gifts. If they have to choose between heating their house or buying some new high-tech gadget, the heat comes first; if they have to choose between gas for the car or new clothes, the gas to get to work is more important. Some people I know are cancelling cable subscriptions or selling off extra belongings at this time to buy gifts for their kids; you see it all over the classifieds.
Sorry ... didn't mean to get on a soapbox here, but I am praying that your DH will find some kind of work ... any work -- just in case his business has to take a hiatis for awhile, just until the economy recovers.
I have been giving a lot of financial advice lately to people who are really struggling; and I am encouraged by those who are willing to try new things and reprioritize their lives, for now. We've all had to do this sometime in our life, but by Faith, you can weather this time out, and even start over, if needs be. Sometimes, this calls for a lot of courage and trust in the Lord, but it can be done.
^PRAYERS^ are continuing for you and your DH; and your $$$ situation ...
