You - thank you for supporting me throughout this difficult journey. thank you for remaining patient and attentive even when I'm not the easiest person to be around. Thank you for showing that you love me through the little things you do. Thank you for helping me realize that I am now a part of a "we" and as a team we can conquer anything!!

You - I like how you started out being supportive of me when I decided to lose weight, now you make it seem like I'm deprived because I'm not joining you for 1000 calorie meals! Stop saying you want to lose weight then criticizing me for doing exactly what you wish you were able to do!!!

Whew! That felt good

I could say this to two of my closest friends, unfortunately.

You- are we friends or not, because really I can't tell. You only call when you need a favor and well, you are just mean.

You- will you please just get the bathroom finished already?!?!?!?

You- why don't you ever call me? And when you do, why do you say I am your best friend?? You never call me!

You- quit sucking your shirt!!!!!

You- do you have to walk around your lawn in a t-shirt with no shorts?? Really. I have kids.

You - You're a very sweet person, but you should have retired ten years ago.

You! You are the best thing that ever happened to me and I still feel the same way about you after 16 years together!

YOU - I have carefully read your loooonnnnggg post about how 'miserably unique' you are. My advice for your very special situation is EAT LESS, MOVE MORE and GET ON WITH IT!
You can make today as pathetic as yesterday if you want, but if not ... get at it!

Love this thread!!!!! Thank you for starting it!


~You: You have always been beautiful, you only need to believe that about yourself. See what everyone else sees in you. You are such a natural beauty, and I have always felt so "unlike" you, even though we are so closely blood related. You have always been more petite, smaller, nice skin, nice tan, less grays-all of that. I can't believe that just because so many of your co-workers have had surgical procedures lately (tummy tucks, boob jobs, weight loss surgeries) that you jumped on the bandwagon and got breast implants. I know that's why you did it, too.
I was in shock when you told me. I was hurt even more so, that you didn't tell me until the night before you were getting it done-when you had been getting the preliminary tests/consultations done for weeks. I was also hurt that you said "lift and slightly fill them out" was the plan...and when I saw them you got porn star ROUND DD's...on your 5'2" frame. I don't like them. At all. You were perfect before...and also a C cup, which was perfect for your frame. It's not like you were an A cup or something. I still can't believe that you did that out of low self esteem and peer pressure.

~You: Thank you for believing me when I discussed my fears and concerns with you, and taking me so seriously. Thank you for being so kind, and having such a wonderful manner with me. Thank you for making me feel so at ease with you...and doing everything that you did for me. I don't think you will ever know how much it all meant...because I am too shy/embarassed to ever tell you.

~You: Grow up. You are 27 years old...not 17. You are a "professional college student" who still lives off your parents, and anyone else who will support you. Stop taking money and handouts from family members and FINISH SCHOOL. WORK MORE HOURS. BUDGET YOUR TIME AND MONEY. I am so sick of you acting like a 19 year old frat boy. You can't be "cool" forever...well, you can-but your idea of cool and mine are completely different. In case you hadn't noticed...your hairline is receding. It is time to act like a MAN now.
Stop treating women like a piece of meat. You are never going to love anyone as much as you love yourself. It makes me so sick to see how you whine and complain about what everyone else has...when they work so hard for it and you skeeze by on what everyone gives you for FREE. Just grow up. Stop making it so hard on your parents and everyone who cares about you.

~You: I miss you so much. A great, great part of my life has been missing since you have been away from me. I know we are together in spirit and in long distance communication...but I feel like my only sisters and best of friends have been taken from me, and I have never gotten over it. I don't think I ever will. The separation has been much more than I have anticipated. We are spread all over now-some of us are still together, but a handful of us now apart from the rest. We still see each other at times with careful planning-but it isn't the same as when we were all together ALL of the time.
You are all goddesses, I want you to know that. I have learned so much from you all, and have known female friendship like I have never known before. You have been rocks to me...and gave me self esteem, trust, and courage like I have never known. You have made such great changes in my life in the past 5 years...I love you all, with all of my heart. I would do anything for you...all you would have to do is ask.

~You: Thongs hanging out of the back of low rise jeans are really tacky. Please wear low rise underwear with them, that is what they are for. Thank you.

~You: Please stop whining about not getting the results you want, when you are unwilling to commit to an exercise regime. We can try to lead the horse to water, but we can't make it drink. Deep down you know what the problem is...but YOU have to do something about it. Complaining won't make your thighs any firmer.

~You: Please stop smoking while you are pregnant. I hate to see it, and so does everyone else around you.

~Thank you for helping me so much lately. I know and can see that you are getting stressed out-trying to do what you normally do, on top of what I normally do. I CAN do some of this stuff...really, I can. I love you.

You: I am crazy in love with you

You: Please stop looking at my 14 year old daughter that way

You: I feel so badly about this but the truth is if we weren't related we wouldn't be friends

You: I will never be anyone else. This is it. I will never wear six inch stilettos, no matter how slim I get.

You: Stop looking down your noses at me because I don't spend an hour getting ready to run to the mall. My nails are short because I think it's more sanitary and I don't wear a full face of make up just to run to the store. I could probably buy you and sell you ten times over but you'll never know that! And by the way, what are you earning working at the make up counter? Minimum wage? If you continue to judge people based soley on their appearance it will come back to bite you in the *** one day.

You: stay on your own side of the freakin' road!

You: when you ring my doorbell please do not ask for the "Lady of the House". I am the freakin' lady of the house!!!

You: you are shady and proving to be untrustworthy. That's why.

You-PLEASE! PLEASE! Stop tell every person on the street your whole health story! No one cares that you have had every part of your body cut on!!!! This will not hold your hubby for much longer.....you are running out of things to do to yourself.


You- Stop telling me how hard it is to lose weight for you when you will not do anything about it

You- thank you for your support but I have been doing this for a long time now and I know what I need to do to lose the last 23 lbs

You-Stop telling my kids to "go get me so and so" get up and get it your self. I did not have kids for you to make them your slaves!

You- STOP tell her she can have something when she crys!!!!! Just say NO! It works for me...

You-I have work here for 4 years and I know my job. Stop have your spys watch me.....If you got something to say to me tell me......

You- Are one hot man!!!!!

You- Thanks for this thread I love it!!!!

You - thanks for getting your own place.

You - I'm tired of being the sole support of OUR sons. You technically have two incomes and she gets child support for HER children and yet you cannot even help out???? Was I the only one involved in having OUR sons. I think not!!! I really hope YOU get that second job like you said and start paying YOUR way.

You - get over your bad self. I'm not here to take your job. YOU will be the end of your job if you keep acting so unprofessionally and sabatoging the project. We all have past crap to deal with and YOU are not exempt to act like an a$$.

You and you - thanks for all your support over the past years. You are the sisters that I never had.

You - I'm so lucky to have you as my rock and that I can count on you always.

You - what you did to me was downright wrong, immoral and illegal. You'll get yours someday.

You - If you don't tell me whats wrong how am I supposed to know?

You - I've lost 40lbs, it is noticable...why do you keep ingoring it?

You - STOP spreading rumours.

You - wherever you are, come find me.

oooh! This is a wonderful idea. I have a few to contribute.

YOU! Stop stepping on me to make yourself feel smarter, funnier, more interesting, etc. You are a sad little man, and one day someone will put you in your place.

YOU! Get your head out of your A$$! At 30, you should know better than to make comments about a woman's weight in front of a room full of people. Idiot.

YOU! You wrecked my entire world by trying so hard to control me. It screwed me up nearly beyond recognition. BUT, I am on my way back now, and I'll be moving on without you. Good riddance.

YOU! How dare you stop dating her because she's too fat. You're not a gift to all women, you know? It's not like girls are beating a path to your door. Jerk.

YOU! You are my very best friend. I could never have come so far without you standing right beside me. You keep me up when I'm falling and dry my tears when I cry. I could not do it without you.

YOU! You better be good to him.

You keep it in perspective.

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You - Of all people, you should understand the limitations of technology.

You - I'm confused and saddened, but I see why you did what you had to do.

You - You better pay attention or you will gain weight back.