BAILEY ~ in Mark 1:41, JESUS was asked by a man to heal him; he had enuff faith, and he asked Jesus this -- "I know that you CAN heal me, but are you willing?" JESUS answered, "I AM WILLING ..." I have this verse on a sticky on my monitor to remind me that not only does the LORD want to heal us, but indeed, HE IS WILLING TO HEAL US too! We have been praying for a home too, but much longer than you; but we have a nice place to live and a camper on our lot we bought many moons ago; and this year, we just started to build a small cabin/cottage on it. It has taken awhile, but GOD has kept His word of promise to us. Sometimes, it is hard to wait; but GOD knows best -- keep praying: it will come, all in HIS good time!
Maybe in the meantime, save as much money as you can for the down payment ... the more you save, the better. It will be easier for you to carry, the lower your mortgage payments are; and in hard times, you won't lose it. We buy and build as we have the $$$ saved, so we will not have any debt. BTW, clear up all unnecessary debt (like credit cards/loans, etc); banks are more likely to give you a mortgage if you have no debt.
One of my friends paid cash for her house; they lived on her DH's wage, putting any extra money in savings; and banked all of her wage, which included a vacation/Christmas savings fund too. She found the best apartment for the lowest price; moving twice to save rent. She bought mostly sales; and she took lessons on thrift & how to cook from her MIL to save even more money.
THANKS FOR YOUR PRAYERS ~ well, usually three's my charm, but this time, it was the FOURTH MECHANIC! He was confident that he would find the problem from the outset, and he was right! PTL -- hallelujah! We were being bombarded with exhaust fumes at the front of the car (from the two front exhaust baffles which were finished). He not only replaced this large piece but installed it, changed our oil & oil filter (we bought), and all for only $100.00. Did I say -- PTL, Hallelujah? AMEN!
I was almost hesitant to come in and say it was fixed, but DH assures me that it is fixed for sure, for sure this time. We will be doing a test drive to the country sometime this weekend, but DH said there were no fumes all the way home. He also told us that we have taken good care of the car (well, we have only put untold K's of $$$ into it since we bought it

); and it should last us for some time now that this has been fixed.
I read recently that Ronald Reagan used to say, "TRUST, BUT VERIFY" ... so I will remember this from now on ...
^PRAYERS^ continue for you and yours ... 