Quote:
Originally Posted by RosiePosie101
Whoop whoop. Just put my height and weight into the BMI calculator thingie and I'm in the normal range!! It is only just in the normal range but I will take it. Big change from Jan 1 when I was in the obese range. This is where I should add a dancing carrot but it's too late at night to figure that out.
Sleep well everyone.
I just learned

how to do dancing


for you, RosieRosie


to celebrate your move to "normal". What a great felling that must be. I am determinedly working my way down to being "overweight".
I recall when I was in college getting a letter from my late mother that she was concerned that I was obese. In those days we did not have those handy calculators for this sort if determination. Being a teen, I challenged my Mom who loftily told me anyone 10% over their ideal weight was obese.
Now I loved my mother dearly and yet the pain of that situation stays with me 40 years later. For me personally, the true tragedy of the whole thing is that it has taken me all those years to get a handle on my weight.
That was an age for me when ambitious daughters and very successful professional mothers could find themselves at emotional loggerheads. I do not know even today whether my mother was trying to be helpful or whether it was a mother vs daughter sort of moment.
I do know that if she had an idea the lifelong pain that sort of comment/help caused, she would have been distressed.
Hard when those who love you have such great power to hurt at exactly the place they should have been helping.
So I look forward to getting out of obese in 12 more pounds!