Morning GG's: I finally got my husband onto a semblance of diet with me... He's 56 and not very overweight, just more of a 'shift of tissue' lol. He's gotten a spare tire around the belly. Anyhow, how it all started was we were getting ready to go out and he pulled out a pair of his jeans (33 waist - he was a 32 all his life) and lo & behold... he got them up but couldn't zip. He had to wear the dress cords we just bought - sz 34's!
He only has 14 pounds to lose until he's back at his summer working weight and you know how it is with men, he will probably be there in 2 weeks

Every year he gains a little over the winter because he isn't working (he's a professional window cleaner and is up & down ladders and carting them around all day) but then loses it by the first month of his regular season. Problem is when you get older, it packs on easier and is slower to drop off. This is his first diet lol.
Day one yesterday and we had been invited out to our friends' house for turkey dinner. I am doing Phase 2 on Ideal Protein (low carb, normal protein amounts) and am gluten free anyhow, so it was just turkey breast meat, a small scoop of mashed potato, a couple tablespoons of corn (the corn is a no-no but whatever) and the only actual vegetable she had - sliced raw cucumber. I should have brought a salad or some veggies. I couldn't believe it! All there was besides turkey was gravy, mashed potato, corn, dressing, and yams. A tiny plate of cuke was the ONLY vegetable. Then there was apple pie and ice cream for dessert. I was actually kind of mad at her since she & I have been working on our weight for a little while (she is on WW but not having success - no kidding!) and this was NOT supportive at all! I actually had to eat more veg when I got home. POOR Randy, she kept pushing the bad food on him - I felt like I could have slapped her. I've never seen her like this... maybe she is feeling so badly about gaining weight herself but you should have seen the plate she loaded up for herself. Trucker portions, and she is only 5' tall. Oh, yeah, and then she brought out Nanaimo Bars!!!! after the pie & ice cream.
I didn't know what to do, but it seemed so surreal, like she wasn't even herself. Maybe she is depressed? What should I say - nothing or should I ask if she is OK?? Her hubby is no help because he eats meat & potatoes and junk food (& has gained some himself) and he has no interest in any other kind of food, Asian, Mexican, Mediterranean, etc. so she cooks his way.
Any thoughts, ladies? It's just not like her, we have been friends for 7 years and this is just weird

Just FYI she is my hubby's age and her husband is my age. Do you think this has anything to do with insecurity as her husband married her when she was a petite tiny little thing? Her hubby and I get along, but he is mainly my husband's friend.
Anyhow, Randy is back on plan this morning with eggs and 1 pc of toast for breaky instead of 4 servings of granola & milk for breakfast. Good boy, he got a nice hug for that
