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Originally Posted by kaplods
That's what's so frustrationg about encountering someone who has succeeded at losing weight (whether that success is ultimately permanent or not) and become zealots for the method(s) they've used, condemning all who have not "seen the light," as they have. And God forbid, if you've tried their method and it didn't work for you, well then you just didn't give it a chance, or somehow failed personally.
Don't get me wrong, I love to hear how other people have succeeded at losing weight or changing their eating and exercise habits, but when it turns judgemental, I just want to snap their heads off their newly tiny bodies.
HA! - thanks kap! - that's the best laugh I've had all day!
This is why I always say that "different things work for different people." I have tried several well-known diets that have been given the thumbs up from dieticians, celebrities, etc. & I really committed myself, yet SOMEHOW it didn't work for me.
I am currently on South Beach Diet. This Tuesday I will have completed Phase 1 but I have yet to lose the "8-13 pounds!" they claim you can lose during Phase 1, which is the first two weeks of the diet. Why not? Why haven't I lost even 2 measly pounds???? I'm really not sure! - but I AM TOTALLY doing Phase 1 exactly as it's laid out in the book! Therefore apparently something is koo-koo with my body. I believe it to be the anti-depressant I'm currently taking, which I completely believe is the reason I gained 20 of the 40 pounds I am trying to lose. HOWEVER - I am not willing to give up yet. So I will do two more weeks at Phase 1 - If it DOES work, well then naturally I'd proceed to Phase 2. And if that doesn't start peeling off the pounds, I will give it up & try something different.
The last two times I have lost weight has been through diet & exercise. The diet has been "self tailored" - something I put together myself & followed quite nicely. I still believe the best diet for anyone is a self-made diet. Take a tip from here, throw in some advice from there, remember what worked & what didn't work the last time... KaBoom! - you've got yourself a Self-Made Diet. The reason I believe these to be the best diets is because only YOU truly know your body. YOU know what you are willing to give up, what you are willing to cut down on, & what you are never willing to let go. My last weight loss (from 160 down to 138 in about 3.5 months) was me getting crazy with the raw cut veggies & lots of fruit. I still ate lean meat, poultry, seafood, etc. I still had the occasional dessert (usually a Jell-O SF Pudding with Lite Cool Whip) and still drank frozen margaritas at the beach. I gave up white flour products (bread, pasta, etc.) and I was OK with that.
I exercised 1.5 -2hrs 4x/week. 45 min treadmill climbs, & 30-45 minutes weight lifting sessions. I was in good shape & was 3 pounds from my goal weight (135) when I re-injured my rotator cuff that I had surgery on 3 years prior. I couldn't lift weights, I couldn't even treadmill (natural arm swinging motion really hurt!!!) - so I quit exercising while I went through PT with my shoulder. Then I started pulling muscles left & right & my neck & back hurt a lot. That's when my doc took more x-rays & saw that I have osteoarthritis starting up in my neck & my lower back & hip joints.
I eventually quit exercising all together. THAT led to overeating & soon I was depressed & I've hit perimenopause. Hot flashes, raging hormones, fatigue, etc. I had gained 20 pounds back of what I had lost by not exercising & eating kinda crazy (popcorn for dinner, anyone?). But I was spiraling further & further into depression, & the meds my doc prescribed wasn't helping AT ALL! - so we switched meds. I was soon feeling like my old self again - happy-go-lucky, with that "I-can-do-anything-I-set-my-mind-to" attitude. I started eating healthier again, and walking a little (still watching that back pain) & yet I gained 20 pounds. Hello? I'm sane now, but fatter.
I think addiction IS a disease. I didn't use to think that way. When my dad was an alcoholic, it took me a long time to realize that he couldn't "just stop" drinking. The DISEASE is a mental type of disease. The ADDICTION is what the disease uses to keep itself alive. There are soooooo many studies out there that support this, including a new one I just read the other day that explained a man who was a heavy smoker was accidentally electrocuted (he almost died!) and when he came out of his near-death experience, he no longer had ANY DESIRE TO SMOKE. Scientists figured "hey, better study this!" and they found out that there is a part of the brain that is "more lit up" on that color-scan-brain-screen thingy of those who want to smoke (or drink or eat too much or gamble or shop or exercise too much, etc.) than the color screens of those who had no desire to "fulfill their addiction."
Interesting, no? I think so.
