EZ: You've asked why certain things make people uncomfortable, and I've tried to contribute. When I say "you" in this post, it is in a general sense - though you are the one who asked, please don't feel like I am singling you out as an individual...it's not the case. You have nearly 20,000 posts and are obviously a valued member of this community.
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any time one person says "I know this to be true" and another knows a different truth, there's going to be friction
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It's hard to share common dialogue with someone who sees you as an object of pity, scorn, or revulsion because you're basically the walking damned as far as they're concerned.
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When someone implies superiority over others, especially over something relative (such as belief), people become uncomfortable.
Like it or not, what you "know" to be true is simply another belief. No matter how deeply you feel it, no matter how wholeheartedly you dedicate your life to this belief, no matter how solidly applicable these thoughts are...it is still just a belief.
Claiming that others "cannot understand" the magnitude of your faith is both erroneous and condescending - people outside of your religion are perfectly capable of not only understanding your dedication to your faith, but of dedicating themselves to other ideas and causes with the same amount of passion.
...I could go on with examples, stories and other soap-box rantings...****, I could probably even make some handy dandy charts. I won't. Things amplify on the Internet, feelings get hurt, and potential damage that it could cause simply isn't worthwhile. As strongly opposed to mandated censorship as I am, I completely understand why the rules are here and why the moderators have to keep a pretty watchful eye on this rambunctious crew *grins*.
Tl;dr: Regardless (and because of!) of our different backgrounds and beliefs, this site is a valuable resource. We are here on mutual ground - lets continue to support, encourage and inspire one another!
Like Nola, I really do not want to see this thread locked/deleted, but it very likely will be. Perhaps that is for the best, all things considered.