Charlie sounds like the answer to prayer, Mima. The guests when I'm not there would be tensing to me too but that's the kind of thing I'm trying to learn to let go. You're doing them a kindness so they should not be critical if everything isn't ship-shape while you're gone. But I know how you feel.
I'd love to have my granddaughters for a week, Happy. But I also would be exhausted. Have been having the urge to bake oatmeal cookies for dh - and want to make a pumpkin pie for gd when she comes next.
Had a lovely day yesterday. Went out for a great lunch at a nice place then drove a bit to a lake at a state park. We've been there before but usually go to the other lake in the park - bigger with boating etc (though we just watch). So yesterday we went to the one with a beach and watched people shivering in the cold water - air temp only made it to 72 yesterday (part of the lovely for me). Anyway we saw that it had a nice paved trail and took a nice long (for us) leisurely walk - really felt out in the middle of nowhere. Lots of lovely trails off it as well and (for the first time in a long time) I wished I could still do those.
It's mid morning here and I'm still in my robe. Doing some laundry but no special plans except for later this afternoon when we're going to the racetrack for a bit this evening. May also do some more fun weeding. I did a fair amount last evening but only because I wanted to. Have ignored it since dh was in hospital last month so I'm mostly pulling only the biggest all around to make it look less wild - perfect MIGHT come later. So many things I could do but, hey, if I were away spending money on some resort I couldn't worry about them so I'm not. I'm here in body only.
Great weekend, all!



My hand just keeps getting bigger. I finally had to go to the kitchen and get some ice to go on it and let someone else play the last couple of songs. (Not good ...) The pain went nearly to my elbow before it stopped but my heart never did skip a beat or get fast or anything so guess it wasn't very venomous. My hand is still swollen a little and red and it itches like crazy and I have a small hole in it. I went to the Dr. yesterday and he assured me it wasn't a brown recluse ... after I didn't die, that was my next big concern - there are a lot of those around here and if they bite you the flesh around the bite just rots away!
So, since I didn't die, I guess I'll be OK!
SPIDERS ... UGH! I really HATE spiders ... always have. I have a THING about spiders ... I sure won't be reaching my hand into any more plants at church!!! 

It is pretty neat ... I had to pay for the design and then take it apart and change all the colors and make new backgrounds to fit my business. The mouse-over buttons alone have 48 different color codes in them although you can only actually SEE 2 ... unbelievable!!! To see the HTML codes, click on View at the top of the screen and then click Source from the drop down menu. The page that comes up is the HTML code I had to edit in order to get what you see on the screen. I usually just write my own but I really like that background and couldn't figure out exactly how to make it so I just bought it!