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Originally Posted by Jacquie668
I really want to get back to taking care of me, like Cyn expressed when you give and give and give people tend to take and take and take don't they. So, taking care of us is not only important, but essential. I don't have the energy to take care of all the "Takers" out there anymore lol. I'm all drained and used up right now.
Jacquie668, my expression for what you call "Takers" is "Toxic People". It's like they suck the life out of you; leaving you all drained and out on the ledge so to speak. Believe me I have had many of these people in my life but; seriously I have told them NO more that basically I don't mind helping some one out but;
don't drag me into all your "Drama".
I must say I have had a few turn around and have said they were sorry; if they start to slip and are getting out of hand again I let them know right away. Actually these few who have stuck with me appreciated that I told them. Others stopped coming around at all and I'm not sad about it; I realized they were not my friends after all.
Try really hard to rid yourself of these Toxic People and it's essential to do and think of yourself now.
Take care of you and take one step at a time and go forward Jacquie668.
All the best,
Elaine